How work impacts our happiness

December 16, 2009



I had the distinct privilege of attending Marcus Buckingham's workshop at last week's Massachusetts Conference for Women, titled "Find your Strongest Life."

Marcus' work has heavily influenced both my career path and my client work in recent years.

After learning his strengths-based career navigation system, I put in place his strategies to figure out what my ideal job would be.  I learned that I love working one-on-one to serve others.  I love empowering people to undergo personal and professional transformation.  And I love being an entrepreneur.

Enter my career and life coaching practice, which is the most rewarding vocation I've had to date.  I've witnessed firsthand how one's satisfaction at the office contributes to happiness in all aspects of their life.

Data backs up the strong relationship between happiness at home and at work.  Intrigued?  Check out this great BusinessWeek article.

In his session, Marcus Buckingham outlined the top four things that affect women's happiness. In the following order: Health, Marriage, Friends, and Work.  Further, I'll submit that the right job allows women time to achieve ideal health, a strong marriage and strong friendships. 

In today's world, what we do is very closely linked with our concept of who we are.  If we feel that we're contributing to society, to our communities and to our families, we're much more likely to report feeling satisfied.

Conversely, if we feel we're wasting our time on work that drains us, disillusionment can leak into other areas of our lives.

If something isn't working in your life, take action now.  Don't let it pull you into a downward spiral.  Recognize that you deserve the very best that life has to offer, and make a plan to turn things around.  Need someone to help you through the process?  Enlist a family member, friend, or professional to support you in achieving your goals.

Having personally experienced the transformational power of coaching, I believe that with the right support network, we can make all of our dreams come true.  All it takes is the belief that you're worth it, and the commitment to see yourself through.
 

Guerilla Networking at Holiday Parties

December 8, 2009



This time of year, our schedules are packed with business holiday parties. Many of us enjoy them, and many dread them. 

For some, holiday parties have become a necessary evil.  Not everyone enjoys interacting with coworkers on a social basis (I'm one of the lucky ones to have had outstanding coworkers), yet the pressure to make an appearance is strong.

How can we transform our experience of the corporate holiday party from dread to enjoyment?  With a little bit of planning.

First, think about y...
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New Year's Resolutions - why wait?

December 3, 2009



As the year winds down, many of us are feeling rushed. Holiday shopping and end-of-year deadlines are compounded by  endless celebrations and holiday parties.

With all of this chaos, it's hard to set aside time to reflect on the past year. 

Most of us have things we'd like to change about our lives. Maybe its a habit, like smoking, overeating, or overspending.  Maybe we'd like to create a healthier lifestyle, make time for a committed relationship, or re-imagine our career.

Committing to making...
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Ambition and family - when all your eggs are in one basket

November 25, 2009



Members of Generation X, those of us in our 30s to mid 40s, particularly those of us living in major metropolitan areas, are delaying marriage and children later than any generation before us. 

Why do we put off these milestones, known to prior generations as rites of passage into adulthood?

Many of us are focused on establishing ourselves as adults in our own right.  Gen X is known for its focus on individuality, expressing ourselves through technology and an ever-younger and more casual tast...
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Clutter busting - organize your desk and increase your calm

November 18, 2009



In the last post we explored internal clutter, the mental chatter that drags us down, and how to address it.

External clutter is an equally common and debilitating condition.  Most of us have cluttered desks or offices, at work or at home.

Here are some quick tips to scale back that mess.

1. Set aside a chunk of time, ranging from an hour to 3 or 4, depending upon the size of your clutter. Clear a large surface, whether on your desk or on the floor, where you can put all of the items that need t...
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Getting organized - quick tips to reduce chaos in your life

November 6, 2009



As discussed in the prior "monkey mind' post, we're bombarded by thousands of messages every day, most of them stemming from our own minds.  The result is a feeling of turmoil.

Clutter can increase our sense of chaos.  Some downfalls of clutter include:
1. When we look at clutter, we feel anxious.  This is because clutter is an outward manifestation of an internal state of turmoil.
2. If our homes or work spaces are filled with clutter, it is hard to find what we need/want.
3. Clutter is just one...
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Tempering disappointment - calling out the ego

October 30, 2009



In the workplace, as in every other sphere of life, we are often faced with disappointment.

Disappointment occurs when our expectations aren't met.

For example, a job seeker who has gone through three rounds of interviews and feels she is going to get an offer will likely feel disappointment if the offer doesn't come through.

When tracing disappointment to its root cause, we will first encounter a mismatch between expectations and reality.

The next step is to examine the source of the expectatio...
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Staging your career: what job seekers can learn from home staging

October 22, 2009



In case you haven't guessed, I'm in the process of selling my home.  In a down economy, making your home stand out is as crucial as making your resume stand out.

In order to attract the most buyers and the highest possible price, I've been watching home staging shows on HGTV, such as "Get it Sold" and "Designed to Sell." After digesting and applying the top tricks of the trade, I realized they have much in common with the "rules" of job application.

Let's explore some of the top lessons in home...
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Tame your inner dialogue; improve your outcomes

October 14, 2009



We all have what Buddhism refers to as the "monkey mind."  Like a monkey jumping from tree to tree, our minds jump from thought to thought.

Most of the thoughts that we think each day are a repetition of our thoughts from the day before, with some slight variations.

More importantly, our thoughts shape our emotions, which shape our actions, which determine our outcomes.

Therefore, if we want to change our lives, we can start by changing our thoughts.

Easier said than done, right?

Maybe not.

Let's s...
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Expand your possibilities

October 7, 2009



What would your world look like if you ceased to believe in limits?

If you believed anything was possible, how would you feel?  How would you act?

We all carry around baggage, the baggage of believing that the world can only give us so much.

Think of someone you know who sees limitations all around them.  Someone whose negative beliefs about what is possible shape their lives so strongly that they don't bother to discuss their dreams.  "What's the point?" they might say.

Now think of someone who ...
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Career and Life Coach


Miriam J. Katz I aim to transform our collective perception of work. With a slight perspective shift, each of us can find and cultivate a deep sense of satisfaction in what we do. Together we can find authentic meaning in a space that has become known as the grind. Most of us spend more than 2000 hours at work each year. Let's utilize and value that time, rather than dreading it. Together we can put work on our payroll. Join me for the journey, and share your thoughts and questions!
 

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